SEX SYMBOL 🥵 The H0rny Hornevian Triads ❤️‍🔥 Part 1: The Withdrawn Triad 🪱 Enneagram Types 4, 5, 9

The horny Hornevians (how you get your needs met as withdrawn triad types and sexual dominant). I’ll be doing this for all the types / triads / instinctual combinations, so subscribe to substack, instagram or youtube if that interests you.

Withdrawn sexual types (4, 5, 9) are sexual embryonic sacs magnetizing people into the spiderweb backwalls of their backrooms.

Type 4: Death Bed 🚬 🛏️🥀

Join me in my collapsed bed of romantic tragedies where I’ve already written songs and poetry about you, drawn you and carved you into my ribs. I’m the most rare and irreplaceable lure - in fact, lure is a lurid, cheap term. I’m beyond a lure. I’m a muse unavailable for public consumption. Certainly not for some disgusting fish... I already despise you.

Sexual and romantic tragedy after tragedy and unrequited loves that took dramatic turns that they have yet to move on from. Turns out they were not the 4’s soulmate after much obsessing, because they upset them in a way which cannot be come back from (aka they wounded their ego or revealed themselves to be disappointingly commonplace or stereotypical). Yet, they will be hatefully mined for creative material for years. They attract and repel with melodrama, hyper-special attention that has the fragrance of destined and doomed (and notes of tobacco). Strange flair, emotionally mysterious and unpredictable. Simultaneously an aloof a$$hole and a deep, broken poet.

They get their needs met through vicious withdrawal, active withholding, refusing to do anything other than what they want to do. They are the special exception and this applies to all instincts, but if a sexual type they’ll be expecting romance from their person and singular, fated-feeling sexual attention. You’re not going to find a sexual 4 in some kind of polycule situation. They’re the prince/princess at the center of your universe, not some orbiting or replaceable lover. This needs to be shown.

Type 5: Madam Pinned Butterfly📍🦋📍

What an unusual curiosity you are. Please lay on my velvet morgue table while I prod you with instruments to see which ones make you squeal with pleasure, pain and some new kind of state, which I’ll also be collecting data on. Strip.

Compartmentalized boom-boom backrooms. Spread ‘em, so the 5 can better pin you to their bug board, baby. They’re gonna dissect you like you ain’t never been dissected before, then chop you up into spreadsheet cells and compartmentalize you so hard, you’re gonna beg for more. And when they’ve figured you out, and you’ve been allotted your position, you better stay novel and controllable without being emotionally needy, intrusive or demanding. The Subject rubs the lotion on its skin, unless otherwise directed.

As withdrawn types, access to them will be limited and on their terms. You’re unlikely to find a sexual 5 dating a normie unless that normie is essentially supporting the sexual 5's agenda to get their bizarre, and potentially grotesque, needs met elsewhere without any questions asked or accountability. There’s likely very little romance going on, although the object of affection may serve as a kind of muse.

Type 9: Sex Nap 😶‍🌫️🫦☁️

I’ll stop the world and melt with you. I wrote that for you. Let’s move in together. I don’t actually have my own place. Can I move in with you? I’m already here tho, so. I lost my keys and wallet. Don’t leave me.

The gentle vampire who feeds off you but makes you feel as if you’re getting a psychosexual spiritual massage and like they’re not even really there so what’s the problem? Except when they are there. And they want to kill you softly in their sex cocoon. Digesting and absorbing you until you’re merging and twinning and living inside each other's pores intensely but harmoniously. They might become a sex ghost, but they’re YOUR sex ghost. Except when they’re slow fade triangulating into the next relationship. Then they’re a peace-out-tergeist.

Sexual 9’s are more competitive than other 9’s - especially when it comes to being desired. They’re more prone to creating accidental triangulations, attracting attention and being drama queens. The sexual instinct also ramps up fears of abandonment (specifically by lovers/partners), and as withdrawn fantasy types they can wish for their desirability to psychically mirrored back to them but also have the flexibility to shapeshift and transform through their relationship/s. This is also the most “merging” of the 9’s, union and a level of enmeshment is necessary until they start feeling too located, dependent or erased (which is likely to happen eventually).